A sudden, life-altering event—such as unexpected job loss, a major industry downturn, or a serious health crisis—can severely impact your ability to meet your child support obligations. This financial uncertainty often leads to stress and the accumulation of arrears.
One segment of the public expressing concern due to financial loss and uncertainty are those responsible for paying child support. For many affected by job loss or reduced hours, continuing to keep up with former levels of support specified in enforcement orders has become difficult, if not impossible.
In these situations where payment is a challenge, what recourse do parents have? Although laws vary from state to state, if you are struggling with paying child support during these times, here is some information to help you better understand your options.
Factors to Consider When Seeking Relief
When it comes to difficulties with making child support payments, it is best to take a proactive approach. If there is an enforcement order against you and you cannot pay, you may be able to take several courses of action. This may include trying to get your child support modified – but you must be forthcoming and act as soon as possible.
1. Try Your Best to Pay
Everyone’s situation is different, so you should consider your specific financial circumstances. If the current financial change has caused a change in your income, but you can still meet your support obligations, it is best to do so. This plan may require taking a closer look at your budget and rearranging certain items to continue your payments. It may be more beneficial in the long term to avoid negative consequences, especially if the court does not grant you relief.
2. Modifying Your Support Order
Just because you may have lost your job or qualify for unemployment, that doesn’t mean the court will automatically decide that paying child support is a hardship for you and give you a break.
There are a few key factors that come into play when seeking a modification:
You Must Notify the Court
If you want the court to modify your child support agreement, you must let them know what is going on with your situation. It is your responsibility to file a modification petition. This should be done as soon as possible because your arrears balance will continue to accrue until this paperwork is filed and granted. Modification orders are generally not retroactive.
Demonstrate a Change in Circumstances
One of the main determinants regarding whether the court might agree to modify or pause your child support payments has to do with the substantial change in circumstances you have experienced. The burden of proof is on you to demonstrate why your current circumstances make it difficult to make the required payments.
To support your claim, you can show the long-term nature of your income loss while providing evidence of good faith:
- Document your efforts to secure new employment (whether successful or not).
- If you were able to find a new job, but the salary is not comparable to your previous employment, you want to be able to present this to the court.
Examples of “Substantial Change in Circumstance”
A “substantial change” is the legal threshold required for the court to even consider reviewing the current order. These examples are common reasons a modification petition might be necessary:
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Involuntary Job Loss: A layoff, company closure, or termination (not for misconduct) where you are unable to find comparable employment quickly.
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Health Crisis/Disability: A long-term or permanent disability, or a serious health issue that prevents the payor from earning their previous income.
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Mandatory Reduced Work Hours: A mandatory, non-temporary reduction in hours or pay across an industry or company.
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Military Deployment/Service: A significant income change directly related to active duty or military status.
3. Negotiate with the Other Party
Being honest about your lack of ability to pay with the other party and striking an agreement for modification can be another option.
However, this arrangement should always be made with an attorney’s assistance so that the agreement between you and the other party can be formally filed with and approved by the court. Otherwise, the current enforcement order will continue to be valid, and the informal agreement will not protect you from penalties.
Contact an Experienced Family Law Attorney
As a parent, you want to support your child in any way you can. But if you have experienced the fallout of a major financial event in the form of a lost job or reduction in pay, you may be finding it hard to meet your child support responsibilities.
If you have experienced a substantial and involuntary change in income that prevents you from complying with your current child support order, do not wait until arrears accumulate. Taking action could benefit you by relieving you of penalties associated with a lack of payment, such as being reported to credit agencies or incarceration.
To speak to a qualified attorney about your case, please contact the Law Office of Jana K. Jones today for a confidential consultation.

