Navigating the Challenges of Shared Custody During Spring Break

While spring break is made for fun times with family, for parents who happen to be divorced, it can sometimes be a tricky affair when sharing custody. This post will look at some practical tips and strategies to ensure a stress-free spring break for parents and children alike.

Understanding the Custody Agreement: First, both parents must understand all aspects of the custody agreement regarding vacations and holidays. Examine the custody order or agreement concerning how spring break is divided and whether notice is required regarding travel plans. This will ensure all parties understand and can work to prevent misunderstandings and conflicts.

Planning Ahead: The key to planning any school break is communication. You should discuss with your ex-partner any travel plans for the children or special activities that you would like to arrange during spring break well in advance. Early planning allows the parents to coordinate schedules, discuss possible conflicts, and make adjustments as necessary.

Involving the Kids: When appropriate, include your kids in the planning. This helps them feel listened to and become excited about the spring break plan. Keep in mind the discussion about plans should be suitable for the child's age and should not put the child in the position of having to choose between parents.

Flexibility and Compromise: Flexibility in shared custody arrangements is crucial when holidays come into play. Be willing to compromise whenever issues arise. For example, if one parent has family coming in for a spring break visit, try to be flexible with the schedule and consider swapping some time, maybe a day or a weekend, for that special occasion.

Dealing with Travel: If travel is included in the spring break plans, prepare for all legal and logistical contingencies. Some custody agreements require the consent of both parents or certain documentation may be necessary for travel outside the state or country with children. Verify that passports are current and notify your co-parent of travel itineraries, including where and how to reach the children.

Creating New Traditions: Spring break is the perfect time for parents to start new traditions with their children. A camping trip, a day at the museum, or a movie marathon are great ways to build bonds while sharing new experiences and memories.

Shared custody does not have to be a headache during spring break. With proper planning, good communication, and some compromise, both parents can create a fun and enriching spring break experience for their children. In the end, remember that the goal is to have your children experience a fun and memorable break from school. At the Law Office of Jana K. Jones, PLLC, we are happy to assist you with this process. Contact us today to schedule a consultation!